Regardless of whether you’re an anal novice or a pro, you’ll undoubtedly want to experience an orgasm that is mind-blowing and explosive. Hitting your prostate sweet spot with a gay sex toy is the easiest and quickest way to achieve P-spot stimulation, and the climax that you’ve dreamed of.
Anal Prepping
As no one wants to have a messy anal experience, it’s recommended that you avoid eating spicy foods (that make your stools loose) prior to engaging in anal play with a partner.
Before you dive deep into asshole exploration and prostate stimulation, it’s a good idea to ensure that your hole is super clean. Take a shower and use a douche to clean out your back passage.
Make sure that your nails are trimmed and filed to prevent scratching and tearing of the anus and prostate. Wash your hands and apply a generous amount of lube. If you prefer, you can wear latex gloves.
Stimulating Your Prostate
Located between your bladder and the base of your dick, the prostate gland is about the size and shape of a walnut. Its location makes it somewhat challenging to reach, for some men who are solo exploring. But if you partner up and take it in turns, you and your lover can both enjoy prostate stimulation that is intensely pleasurable.
Lube is Your Friend
Start by applying lube liberally around the anus.
Slowly insert an index finger in your partner’s hole, up to the first knuckle. Pull the finger out, re-apply lube, and reinsert your finger up to the second knuckle. Repeat again until you reach the third knuckle.
Once your finger is fully inserted, feel around for a round lump that’s located inside the anus and up towards the base of the dick.
Use the pad of your finger to gently massage the prostate, with circular or back-and-forth motion. You can also apply gentle pressure for up to 10 seconds.
If using a butt plug, or other gay sex toy, make sure that it’s suitable for your level of anal experience. If you’re a novice, don’t be tempted to insert the largest butt plug, just to prove that you’re a man. Start off with the smallest device and gradually work your way up.
If your anal play gay sex toy has vibrating modes, multi-speeds, and/or a rotational shaft, you’ll be able to enjoy prostate stimulation that comes with intensified orgasms.