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Having a sexual kink can cause problems when it comes to sex. If you are a little worried about how someone is going to take your kink, maybe they will think you’re a little weird or maybe your kink will turn them off! The often people keep their kinks well-hidden and they only come out, when they are feeling confident or perhaps when a bit of alcohol has been consumed.
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Sexual kinks come in all shapes and sizes, and how people define kink is also different, for some anything other than plain vanilla would be considered a kink – for example asking for a bit of light spanking or using those fluffy handcuffs, for others you have to be a bit more enthusiastic actually having the whips and willing to make a mark, or bondage with proper bondage rope.
Kinks can also include the full range of BDSM, lots of different types of role play – anything from Solider Boy to Slaves or golden showers or sensory deprivation. It can also include fetishes such as latex and foot fetishes. You can find all the toys to meet your kinky gay sex needs on our online gay sex toy shop.
Kinky Fantasies & Partners
Whatever it is that you are into telling someone about your needs, wants, desires and dreams can be daunting as you will worry about how they are going to respond. The good news is that most people have some sort of sexual fantasy so they probably have their own kink they want to try so hopefully you can share stories.
Of course, it is not always that simple, what if you love latex and they are allergic, what if you both want to be submissive, or both want to be dominant – that can cause friction in the bedroom. Other kinks like golden showers, while for one man may be a dream, the other may be a nightmare and a no go area so tread with caution if you are speaking to a partner.
Talk to Your Parntner or Gay Escort
Whether it is your regular partner or gay escort that you want to talk to kinky sex about, the approach is the same. Be open, be honest and be specific about what you are looking for and see if this is something they will share with you.
Establishing Kinky Rules
Remember that once you have decided on your kinky approach it is good to have some ground rules and safe words to keep you both happy, safe and horny. Buying gay sex toys together and seeing how horny it makes you both is a great way to get in the mood and then having kinky gay sex together.