If you’re a gay sex toy connoisseur who’s keen to try out exciting new devices, to spice up your sex life, you can easily upgrade your anal sex game by trying pegging and anal hooks.
While butt plugs are great for getting you started on an anal penetration pleasure adventure, there comes a time in every gay man’s sex life when you need to move on to the latest hot gadget to satisfy your kinky fetish lust.
What Is Pegging?
Pegging is the practice of being penetrated by a partner wearing a strap-on. And yes, there are many comfy strap-ons that are specially designed for a gay man to wear when pegging his lover.
Pegging Prep
As with any kind of anal play, it’s important that you prep your ass properly before sex. When taking a shower, use a douche to ensure that your back passage is super clean, to avoid a messy situation later on.
It’s a good idea to keep a supply of wet wipes nearby, during sex, to clear up any spillage. And of course, it goes without saying that you’ll be using lots and lots of lube.
Pegging Warm Up
Before getting down to the business of pegging your partner, or being pegged, it’s important that the ass to be pleasured is suitably prepped.
Lube up the hole and begin by inserting a finger. Remove and repeat and progress to two fingers. When fully relaxed and ready, insert a small butt plug. Don’t be in a rush to peg. Let your lover tell you when he’s ready to be pegged with your strap-on.
Pegging Pleasure
Begin pegging at a slow and steady pace, so that the peggee can become accustomed to the sensation. As you build up the momentum ask your lover if they are enjoying it, and if they want it harder. Always respect their boundaries and stop pegging if they tell you to.
Anal Hooks for BDSM Play
If you’re turned on by bondage, domination, and control, then anal hooks definitely belong in your gay sex toy collection.
Anal hooks are made of metal and feature a ball on the tip of the curved end. At the top of the hook is a ring that allows for easy connecting to a harness, or whatever you like. With an anal hook up your ass your submissive movements are obviously inhibited.