Sex work is the world's oldest profession. Since time immemorial people have wanted – and paid for – gay sex. If you have never spent time with a Gay Escort then finding your first one can be a little daunting but our step by step guide is here to help.

Spending time with a Gay Escort

There is nothing to feel intimidated about, the first thing to remember is that these sexy men, no matter how hot they are, want to make you happy. The gay escorts listed on sleepyboy.com are relaxed, friendly and professional. Booking time with a gay escort is a fast, fun and simple way to get your sexual kicks. But how do you go about selecting the right person for you? It's easy! Just follow this step by step guide.

1.Decide exactly what it is that you're after. Gay Sex is a huge sphere and you need to be upfront and open with what you want to ensure that you get the satisfaction that you're after. So, whether it's a one night fling with a twink that you fancy, or an evening of BDSM with a Bear, make sure you decide on all elements of your sex play so you can choose an gay escort who is the best fit for you.

2. Once you know what you're after, it's time to identify the location you want, and how many miles radius around this that you're prepared to consider. This is less of a problem if you're travelling to them, but if they're coming to you then you don't want to waste a chunk of your valuable evening waiting for them to drive 50 miles – no matter how perfect they are! Remember that the sleepyboy.com website offers you many ways to slim down the search for your perfect gay escort using their advanced search filters.

3. Now for the fun part! It's time to browse the profiles that appeal to you. You're paying for time with a gay escort so make sure you choose your guy carefully. A good profile will have some stats info and a range of recent photos. Some may have a list of sexual behaviours that they do and don't do so that you don't waste your time with someone who's not on your wavelength.

4. Deep breath – it's time to make the first contact. Send a message to your favourtie escort with your location and requirements and a time and date you want to meet to see if they can accommodate you. Set out exactly what you want and where and wait for them to confirm and explain their rates.

5. Once it all looks good, you can go ahead and ask that favourite gay escort to meet you. Arrange the finer details of your liaison, like when and where. Ask for exactly what you want – if you want him to come dressed as a soldier, or strip to reveal ladies underwear, then you need to say so. Ultimately, this is a business transaction and you're there to have your needs met, so make sure that he can satisfy you.

There's just something about them, isn't there? It's no surprise to anyone if walking down the street you find your eyes locked onto a sexy inked man. There are so many different colours and patterns that right away you get an inkling of the sort of personality this tattooed man has.

So, what else stirs that tattoo love inside you?

Sexy Tattooed Gay Men

It's different for everyone. That said, there's a universal appeal for the sexy/edginess look given by tattoos. It can transform an otherwise mediocre look, into something much more attractive. Imagine this – you're on a blind date and you're waiting at the bar. Suddenly, you see your date approach and your heart sinks a little; he's a little on the tall/short side (delete as appropriate) for you. Maybe he's a bit lanky, but then as he gets closer you suddenly spy the body art adorning his arm. There's a colourful swirl of patterns, letters, numbers and symbols. Now this is more like it! With just a view of one arm, you can tell a little more about this person and instantly there's more of a spark.

Tattoos are often deeply personal, too and it's perfectly possible that whatever they have inked on their skin actually means something to them, and they're not afraid to shout it from the rooftops. There's something touching about a gay guy who's prepared to – quite literally – wear his heart on his sleeve. Or his neck. Or his leg – it doesn't matter where. He's got them for life. It represents passion for a certain person/place/thing and if he's got that, then there's a chance that he could feel that same, red hot passion for you.

Rebel Tattoos are Sexy

Rebel, rebel. Even these days, having a tattoo rules you out of certain professions and venues. Genteel country clubs are unlikely to admit you, the corporate world frowns upon them and even these days there are shops and supermarkets which require you to cover up your inking completely. So if you're a sexy gay man has a bold tattoo, this reflects confidence, a devil-may-care attitude, which is very appealing to most people.

And what else attracts your gaze to the tattooed man? It proves commitment. He's taken the time to choose his body art, decide where he wants it and then he's gone through the pain of having it done. Weirdly, this risk-taking can be quite a turn-on, like the kamikaze gladiators of old. He's also given up his time to sit there and go through the process. Lots and lots of tattoos take multiple hours to complete, and some even need to be stretched over multiple days. In addition, he's paid for this! It's not an inconsiderable expense. This is something that really matters to him which immediately shows a depth of personality.

Tattooed Gay Escorts

Many men who love their bodies and work on them to ensure they are perfectly ripped and toned also love to have sexy body art all over it. If you love a tattoo then you definitely have to spend some time with a sexy tattooed gay escort, (find the best on SleepyBoy.com) they can encourage you to really look at their bodies and their tattoos while having as a wild a time as you like

The sexual sub/dom scene is a vast one. Think ropes and ties, handcuffs, blindfolds, whips, chains and paddles. These are the usual accoutrements to a dom/sub game. But what about those who want to take it further? What happens when you want to explore your fetish? You’ve moved on with your games and you want something a little more challenging, where do you go next?

Chastity Cages & other Lockables

First of all, you hire a sexy gay escort, satiating your desires is your aim and how better to ensure this by hiring some one for whom it’s their job to please you? Making your pleasure the responsibility of someone else is not only erotic, but it hits the very kernel of the sub/dom fetish.

Why a chastity cage?

In its very basic form, a chastity cage is worn as a form of orgasm control and/or forced abstinence. Your penis will be locked away, safe from any straying hands, and making you unable to get fully hard, and the cage padlocked so you are truly at the mercy of your key keeper. For example:

• To show your keyholder true commitment
• To bring a hardcore element into your play session
• As part of a dungeon sex game
• Or just to add a little extra frisson of excitement in the bedroom

As you would expect for this level of dedicated fetishism, there are lots of options for chastity cages and other lockable toys that you can use in your sex game. For beginners, you may prefer the slightly less hardcore silicone ones. These come in a range of sizes and colours to suit the taste of any aesthetically motivated chastity cage users. There are plastic ones for daily use and metal lockable toys for the truly committed.

Hardcore Gay Sex Games

If this is your thing, then hang on for the ride – because there are many extreme bedroom accessories, perfect for your pleasure. You may want to train your gay escort to use a cage, if so then you can get silicone devices in different sizes. For the more extreme fetishists, you can get steel cages with a urethral tube attached. Obviously, this adds an extra element to the naughtiness and control.

If you want something a little different, a little more advanced, say, than a chastity cage, then you need a cock cup. This completely encloses your cock and balls, safely locked away from any stimulation whatsoever. In fact, any tiny hint of arousal will leave your penis with a pinch of pain as it struggles against the restraint. The cock cup wearer is totally unable to see anything down there, thus frustrating their most base desires. Lots of these have two padlocks to ensure extra security for their cock play.

If humiliation is your thing, lots of lockable sex toys are designed especially to humiliate the wearer. Imagine being locked up in a device in which you have no option but to pee through a special hole. You are under the total domination of your partner, like it or not.

However you like to play you will have a better time with a sexy Gay Escort, find one that loves your fetish as much as you do at SleepyBoy.com for the ultimate gay sex experience.

Known all over the world as a friendly, welcoming city, it's no surprise that there's a heaving gay scene in Liverpool. In fact, this northern city boasts the only official gay quarter – and it was the first to have one. Now there are gay quarters in all of Britain's major towns and cities, but there's something special about the very first one to have popped up.

Not only that, but Liverpool was known for a long time as the ‘Gay Capital of the North'. It's steeped in progressive LGBT history.

Sexy Liverpool

Liverpool's gay quarter is set up for the best, and most in-depth, gay experiences. To enjoy it properly, go with a friend. There's plenty of entertainment – gay orientated and not – and having a party-mate on hand always enriches the fun! Liverpool is an open, relaxed, place, so if you're a bit nervous, or have only just come out, this is definitely the city for you to go in order to build up self confidence and really get stuck into the friendly gay scene. If by chance you already know someone in Liverpool, then you're quids in because they will know all the in's and out's of the best LGBT places.

Liverpool Gay Bars & Clubs

Let's start with the essentials. There is a plethora of gay bars and pubs to get you started. These are a real mix and range from the traditional, open fire type places, right through to the innovative entertainment of the 21st century. Whatever your taste – there will be something for you to enjoy. Imagine wandering the streets of the gay quarter, hand in hand with your beau, and sampling the very best of Liverpool's gay scene. It's an attractive possibility, right? Why not make it your own?!

You will find the more flamboyant gay, cabaret-esq events have a firm foothold in Liverpool's LGBT community. One of the best of these celebrations is the Liverpool Gay ‘Mardi Gras' style event. Taking inspiration from it's Brazilian forefather, this has quickly evolved into a vibrant, energetic, passionate celebration. Held annually, this is one date that you do not want to miss! Why not dress up and join in with all the fun? A few brightly coloured clothes, a bit of war paint and a funky head dress (and possibly some cold Corona!) and you'll be good to go, partying through the night, enjoying the very last drop of gay fun.

Liverpool Gay Escorts

If you really want to have a great time in Gay Liverpool then the best way to do that is by spending time with a Liverpudlian Gay Escort. These Liverpool Lads know the best places to go and they also know how to have the best gay sex, so that is a very alluring combinations, have a great night in or out with a sexy gay escort in Liverpool and you can find the best ones at SleepyBoy.com

Things to do in Gay Liverpool

If it's the morning after the night before and you're looking for something quieter to do, then visiting the Merseyside Maritime Museum to see the ‘Hello, Sailor' exhibition is a must. This unique attraction examines the experiences of gay seafarers who took to the waves between the 1950s and 80s, both in merchant and passenger ships. Arguably showcasing material ahead of its time, the ‘Hello, Sailor!' exhibition gives a fascinating insight into the colourful history of Liverpool. To top it off, why not sport a jaunty little Captain's hat to get you really in the mood?!

Gay sex games are one of the few things which have traversed the centuries and apply equally to men and women, old or young. Gay sex with your favourite gay escort is always fun and incredibly pleasurable but there is also a kinkier, naughty, darker side to hot gay sex as well. Well-trodden pleasure pathways, involving dirty deeds and surrendering to your innermost desires. Using sex games, costumes, bondage restraints and gags, to name just a few.

So if you're looking to spice up your sexual time with your gay escort, then indulging in a little light (or heavy!) bondage play with masks and blindfolds might just be the thing for you.

Gay Sex Games with your Gay Escort

So, these sex games with blindfolds and masks, then. What's that all about?

Largely, it's about domination, of course. Either you or your escort blindfolded and under the control of the other. It might be something that you've enjoyed before, or a new idea that you've been ruminating on for a while. Old or new, things like this are perfect if you've had a bit of a sexual dry spell, or your diary hasn't allowed for your usual fun times. So, choose your escort, get out your sex toys, grab the lube and prepare to indulge yourselves in a night of passion.

Sexy Ideas to try with your Gay Escort

Your masks and blindfolds are out and ready, your gay escort is almost here, so what now? If you're feeling a little nervous, then starting off with a less kinky game is definitely a good idea to warm up. As you get going you can ramp up the pleasure stakes by masking one of you with the other taking the more dominant role. Bondage toys are great for any type of role play, or indeed cosplay, too. Initially taking off in the mid-80s, cosplay is a scene which has exploded over recent years. You can dress up as anything and anyone for your own sexual pleasure.

If you're looking for something a little lighter, then blindfolding your gay escort and playing ‘roll the sexual dice' where he has to guess what his throw has yielded by what you do to his body, is a good game to play. Or perhaps a sexy card game, with the loser losing their sight....

But if those are a bit vanilla for you, then step on over to the hardcore stuff. Role play themed games usually have a sub/dom element, you can choose You can keep your games strictly in the bedroom, or you can choose to dare and bring the game into everyday life. Whichever you prefer, blindfolds and masks will get you there. Some ideas include:

1. Master/Servant
2. Teacher/Pupil
3. Slave needing punishment
4. Orgasm withholding

But the playing field is wide open. Even if you're just curious about BDSM and don't know where to start, there are dirty, bedroom sex games which direct you in what to do with your masks, blindfolds, whips and ticklers. Release your inner sexuality, explore erotic games and surrender to your lust. Find a sexy gay escort to play with at sleepyboy.com

As we all know, popular gay culture separates its members into groups to account for the variety of sexual tastes out there. In the gay world, a twink is a younger, slender man who comes under the sexual charge of the more hirsute gay Bear.

So why do we love a smooth, hairless skinny twink? What's the appeal?

Well – where to start! They're young and impressionable. They probably don't have an awful lot of experience under their belt (so to speak) and they're just begging to learn from a more established gay man and be exposed to the naughtiest of thoughts.

If you have a certain fantasies, perhaps involving the initiating of younger males, then a twink is what you need to be looking for, they'll probably be all too happy to learn.

Gay Twinks are so Hot

Twinks are usually tall and slim, but soft. You won't find them spending hours in the gym perfecting those iron hard abs or glutes or whatever. These guys are definitely slender, compared to the more chunky, muscly Bear types. But just because they might be missing a bit of muscle definition, this doesn't mean that they're not sexy! A bodily hairless twink can get your pulse racing just by shooting you a loaded look from his pretty-boy face.

And yes, now we mention it, the face. It's a preserve of the gay twink guy that he has comparable features to Adonis. It isn't all about appearance, but with twinks, it does have a major part. That doesn't mean of course that lovers of twinks are shallow or anything, just that looks are part of the package deal here. Cute means innocent, sort of thing. Aesthetics are important here.

So how DOES a twink look?

The next step is the clothes. Ooooh.......the clothes.....You won't find the more outlandish gay outfits here, no skin tight rubber or feather boas, instead twinks opt for skinny jeans and slim-fitting t-shirts which show off their slender body shape to perfection. It's all about the low-key robes, think sexy and stylish, not slutty. The way those t-shirts ride up at the waist to show off a slim, toned stomach is enough to drive any Bear mad.

Another thing to love about these sweethearts is their oh-so-cute, slightly feminine look, which is great if you like the finer things in life. Namely smooth, flawless skin, fluttering eyelashes and those big, Bambi eyes peering seductively at you out from under their floppy fringe, a la Princess Diana.

So that's why we love a twink. These guys with their healthy, lean look, craving the attention of the older, more experienced man – what's not to like? Perhaps you want a fellow twink for yourself, for some naughty, night time fun? Or are you a Bear with a desire for different? Whatever you want, it's all do-able, you just need to know what you're looking for – and recognise it when you find it.

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When you think of a gay model, how do you picture them to look like? Rippling muscles, six pack, chiselled jaw? Or slender, toned abs and sleekly swept back hair? Or maybe you prefer to fantasise about David Beckham in those pants. Whatever your personal preferences are, there's guaranteed to be the perfect gay model out there for you. It's out of my league, you say. I'd never get to meet my perfect gay model, you think. But this is a time when you should definitely think again! The gay community is a hotbed of young, pouting, sexy men who just love strutting their stuff on the catwalk and pulling those poses in front of the camera.

Gay Model Gay Escort

Given that their very aura is about enchanting and enticing, you can guarantee a fabulous night ahead. Imagine the seductive body of a gay model, gorgeous, deep eyes and smooth hands which have just a frisson of suggestion about them. It's enough to make anyone swoon at their feet.

So now we come to the next question. How on earth do you go about sourcing a gay model to join you for your naughty nights? Well we are going to look at three main ways – hanging around the fashion set in the hopes of meeting and then seducing one, happening upon a gay model in a gay club and again seducing him, or the best and most practical method call one of the gay models on sleepyboy.com who is also a gay escort for the best gay sex ever.

Lets have a look in more detail at those options:

Gay model, gay model, where art thou?

The obvious place is in the fashion world, of course, and specifically the gay quotient of it. There are loads of gay designers working exclusively with gay models all over the UK who come flocking to be dressed, admired and to show off their sexy bod in front of an adoring audience. If you don't plan to become a designer purely to get to the models (which most right-thinking people wouldn't) then the question of how to infiltrate this fashion network arises. In these situations, it's always better to go through a social link. The gay community is large and there's bound to be someone on your social radar who could possibly introduce you to a fashion whore. Think back to American Pie: The Wedding and when Jim got Michelle's perfect wedding dress from fashion designer Lesley. It's not always the case, but in these situations, more often than not, it's all about who you know. Just make sure that you cultivate the ground carefully and trust your friend making the introductions so you don't end up with a nightmare night, rather than a naughty one.

Find a Gay Model in a Club

Which leads neatly onto the next area for scoping out the talent, if you'd rather do the legwork yourself. It's an obvious location, there's almost guaranteed to be one near you and it's practically a given that you'll find plenty of gay models stalking about. And where might you find this homosexual Mecca? In a gay club! See, it's simple. As you no doubt know, the gay fraternity like to stick together so you'll always find a plethora of different people in a club like this for you to muse upon. And though it's probably far from a meat market, you're almost guaranteed to meet a hot gay model who ticks all your boxes.

Gay Models on Sleepyboy.com

If you want to be sure to find the type of gay model you are looking for and you want him quickly then visiting sleepyboy.com is the best way to find gay models who are also gay escorts who are just waiting for your call. The best and easiest way to get fucked by a gay model is to find him on sleepyboy.com